Summarizing , its tof to manage things, but one needs to hv a split personality, to keep a balance between the two.
Hey Anshul, it is not the question of having a split personality or double standards if you mean to say that....what is implied here that a person should be able to take decisions based on his free will and what is most suitable for him/her without hurting the feelings of others.
And this behaviour can't be compartmentalized as you say....selfish a work place and selfless with your close relatives and friends...again you will be sacrifying in your relationships and being manipulative at work which will not help you in the long run. the idea is to be assertive in every situation which you face in life. Any views
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Posted: Tue Sep 07, 2004 4:11 am Post subject:
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These people i feel are very unemotional as they don't care a damn about what others might think. And mind you, you cannot change anybody else but yourself. So instead of getting angry and letting the other person know on the face, it is better to let them be what they are...they will eventually face the music...at least you don't waste your emotions on them.
you are so true, there is no point on getting angry for this kind of people.
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